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In the photo are (left to right) Summit Saltzman, Isabella Choate, Lillie Thibodeaux and Issac Duhon. Sitting down is police jury president Jason Picard, who signed the beef proclamation.

Beef proclamation signed by Vermilion Parish Police Jury

The Vermilion Parish Cattlewomen’s Association, along with the reigning Queen, Thibodeaux, and 4-H Beef exhibitors, Isaac Duhon, Summit Saltzman, and Isabella Choate attended a Police Jury meeting requesting that the parish proclaim that Beef Month be celebrated in June.
Since it is the mission of the Cattlemen and Cattlewomen to support youth in beef education, the organization is here to encourage and support beef promotion and awareness.
The 4-H exhibitors gave a presentation about the history, nutritional value, an economic value of beef to our community and thanked the jurors for supporting the 4-H program and the beef industry. Police Jury President Jason Picard signed the Beef Proclamation on Wednesday, May 17, 2023.

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Photo by Alex Tirado/LSU Manship School News Service
Commissioner of Administration Jay Dardenne helped approve an increase in
projected state tax collections.

Legislature estimated to have more cash

BATON ROUGE—A $483 million increase in revenue for the state’s general spending fund is now being estimated for 2024, adding to a giant pile of money that the state Legislature has at its disposal.
Under the new projections, the state’s general fund also will take in $323.4 million more than previously expected in the current fiscal year, bringing the total surplus from the last two years to over $2.1 billion.
The new projection was made Thursday by the state’s Revenue Estimating Conference. It updated revenue forecasts for both the current fiscal year, which ends June 30, and for next year.
The increased projections come as the House and the Senate are split over what to do with all the extra money.
Under a formula that places a cap on spending, the Legislature could only spend $500 million of the surplus funds in fiscal year 2024 on recurring budget items, and the additional revenue forecasted Thursday will not increase the cap.
The biggest fight in the session is whether to try to muster a vote of two-thirds of both chambers to exceed the spending limit.
In its budget, passed earlier this month, the House voted to stay within the cap for ongoing programs and use part of the surplus funds to pay down state debt, including for teacher pensions.
The House budget did not include a $3,000-a-year raise for K-12 teachers and various infrastructure projects that had been proposed by Gov. John Bel Edwards.
House Republican leaders said that paying off pension debts would free up money that parishes could use to fund their own teacher pay raises. They also cautioned against spending too much of the surplus since the state will lose hundreds of millions of dollars in revenue when a temporary 0.45% of state sales tax expires in two years.
However, the Senate president, Patrick Cortez, has voiced support for expanding the spending cap to cover the rising costs of roads, bridges and other construction projects and to provide more funds for early childhood education.
The Senate Finance Committee began debate Thursday on its version of the budget.
The Revenue Estimating Conference meets throughout the year to provide updates to revenue estimates. It last met in December.
The group— made up of the Senate president, the House speaker, and two appointed members, including Edwards’ Commissioner of Administration, Jay Dardenne—unanimously approved the update for the 2023 fiscal year written by Manfred Dix, the chief economist for the state.
The estimate also included hundreds of millions of dollars in additional money for other state accounts besides the general fund.
At Thursday’s meeting, the conference also unanimously accepted the Legislative Fiscal Office’s predictions of an increase $483 million for the general fund in fiscal 2024.
Debbie Vivien, the chief economist for the Legislative Fiscal Office, emphasized that these are just conservative estimates, as anything can happen in the upcoming year.
“There’s still a lot of unknowns,” Vivien said. “It’s a pretty picture, but it’s the picture that’s in the middle. And it can change a lot either way.”

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Photo by Doug Dugas / University of Louisiana
at Lafayette
The University of Louisiana at Lafayette held its Spring 2023 Commencement on Friday and Saturday.

Vermilion Parish students receive degrees during UL Lafayette Spring commencement ceremonies

The University of Louisiana at Lafayette is celebrated its Spring 2023 graduates during Commencement ceremonies this past weekend.
The university conferred a total of 1,641 degrees.
Individual Commencement ceremonies for UL Lafayette’s eight academic colleges were held at the Cajundome and Convention Center.
The University conferred 1,273 bachelor’s degrees. Among this total are 35 students who have maintained a 4.0 GPA, the most summa cum laude graduates in a single semester in University history.
It also awarded 41 doctoral degrees, another record, and 323 master’s degrees, the second-largest number awarded in a semester. The total of 364 graduate degrees is the highest in a semester. Three graduate certificates and one undergraduate certificate also will be awarded.
The Spring 2023 class is also notable for diversity. It includes the second-highest graduates of Asian descent in a semester and the third-most Hispanic graduates.
As a whole, graduates are from 49 Louisiana parishes, 33 states and 32 international countries.
Dr. Joseph Savoie, UL Lafayette president, addressed graduates during the College of Engineering’s ceremony on Friday at the Cajundome.
Savoie referenced the upcoming celebration of the 125th anniversary of the University's founding. He also reflected on its “humble origins” – an institution that offered a handful of technical courses, drawing a parallel to the internationally recognized academic and research university it has become and outlining a few examples of cutting-edge research and scholarship.
“For 125 years, our university’s story has been one of exceeding expectations,” Savoie said. “And now, graduates, it’s your turn to exceed expectations."
Savoie continued: "The diploma you’re receiving is more than a symbol of past achievements. It also represents what’s yet to come and what you’ve yet to achieve. Your diploma is an invitation to change the world – not just to do well for yourself, but to do good for others."

Vermilion Parish

Baccalaureate
Degree

Business
Administration

Grant M David
Annie Alise Falcon
Brennan M Felix
Alexandra Granger
Seth Luther Henry
Cameron B Horton
John Ethan Menard
Anna Philley
Reed M Renfrow

Education

Kaytlan Paige Cahn
Rylie Erin Frick
Hannah C Granger
Laura K Plaisance
Mckenzie L Richard
Sasha Rudd
Abby Nicole Schexnailder
Paige Nichole Sloane
Mallory K Trahan
Alexis Trahan

Education &
Human Development

Jean-Paul Touchet

Engineering

Richard Austin Belaire
Brooks Broussard
Zachary Steven Guidry
Bang Cong Nguyen
Henry Moss Watson

Liberal Arts

Rebekah Denyse Arabie
Kellyn Cashat
Lillian Lene Champagne
Lani Claire Darby
Lydia C Desormeaux
Jennah Marie Detraz
Camille Louise Harrington
Victoria Elizabeth Hebert
Catherine C Hebert
Alayna Miller
Jazlynn Morales
Audrey C Reaux

Nursing &
Health Sciences

Gavin Paul Becker
Meryl G Guidry
Emma Leigh LeBlanc
Alison Marin Romero
Bethany Joy Rupert
Lani Y Trahan
Linh T Tran
Jazlyn Janai White

Sciences

Jada Renee Braly
Phillip M Guidry
Alyx Renee Hebert
Mason Lawrence
Marcantel
Kevin D Nguyen
Emelie J Richard
Alex M Saunier

University College

Sydney P Bertrand
Jason William Cormier
Jennifer Kay Faulk
Matthew J Irwin
Bailey A Lasalle
Pleasure Mouton
Jenah Lynn Richard
Elizabeth Veazey

Masters Degree

Business
Administration

John Tran

Education
& Human Development

Madison Noelle Istre-Guidry

Engineering

Travis Lee Harrington
Joshua Alexander
Wilson

Liberal Arts

Kylie Andre’ White

Sciences

David Wayne Matte

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Abbeville High School named as recipient of Laura Bush Foundation for America’s Libraries Grant

Abbeville High School is one of 300 schools from 36 states across the country to receive a $5,000 grant through the Laura Bush Foundation for America’s Libraries. This year, the Laura Bush Foundation for America’s Libraries awarded $1.5 million in library grants this year.
Many of the libraries will use the funds to update and diversify their collections.
“Congratulations to the 2023 Laura Bush Foundation Grant Recipients! I am thrilled that school librarians across the country will soon be able to update their library collections,” Mrs. Bush said.
“These funds will help AHS update its library collection and encourage reading. I applied for this grant last school year and didn’t receive it. It just goes to show that you cannot give up and should always keep trying. I look forward to seeing the Wildcats’ faces when we receive all the awesome new books! We are so appreciative of this opportunity,” said Katie Cordes, AHS Librarian and 2022-23 Teacher of the Year.
Mrs. Bush revealed her 2023 summer reading list, which includes recommendations for young readers through middle schoolers at the annual Laura Bush Book Club event, as part of the Engage at the Bush Center series presented by NexPoint, with support from H-E-B. Selections feature books on family, adventure, and gratitude. The list contains classics like The Little House as well as new releases like The Loud Librarian, featuring Dallas illustrator, Erika Lynne Jones.
 “This year’s summer reading list includes an old favorite, Charlotte’s Web, which I remember reading to my daughters when they were little,” Mrs. Bush said. “As a former teacher and librarian, I know that the most important thing parents and caregivers can do for their children is to read to them. So I hope you bring this list to your local library, and pick out a few books to read with your family this summer. Your kids will love it, and so will you.”
Grant applications for the 2023-2024 school year will open in late 2023. Visit laurabushfoundation.org to learn more.   
The Laura Bush Foundation for America’s Libraries supports school libraries with the greatest needs with the goal of encouraging all students to develop a love of reading and learning. Since its inception in 2002, it has awarded $21 million to more than 3,600 schools across the country.  
The George W. Bush Institute’s Education and Opportunity work, which houses the Laura Bush Foundation for America’s Libraries, is generously supported by The Allstate Foundation. The Laura Bush Foundation is managed as a restricted fund at the George W. Bush Presidential Center in Dallas, Texas. More information can be found at laurabushfoundation.org and www.bushcenter.org.

George W. Bush Institute

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Charlotte Lancon

Charlotte Lancon, 69, a long-term resident of Maurice, peacefully passed away at Oshner Hospital in New Orleans on May 18.
Charlotte was born on December 28, 1953 to Willis and Lillian Lancon Sr. She was one of 8 children.
She was a graduate of NISH and at the age of 40 was valedictorian of her nursing class.
Charlotte loved everything about country living… animals, flowers, and back porch sitting. She loved nothing more than her family especially her grandchildren or as she referred to them…her little monkeyshines.
She is survived by her companion Oleus (TJim) Louviere, 2 children Joy Stafford-Coy (Lance) and Jacob Hebert , 3 grandchildren (Caleb, Caden, and Camille Coy), 2 brothers (Willis Lancon Jr and Chris Lancon), and sister Connie Tutt.
She was preceded in death by her parents and 4 sisters (Katherine Lancon, Veronica “Ronnie”Brewer, Malvina Lancon, and Cynthia Tauzin).
As per her request there will be a small intimate memorial service in Florida where her cremains will be scattered into the Gulf of Mexico making her wish of being a mermaid come true.

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Dorothy Toups Peré

April 14, 1941 ~ May 17, 2023

ABBEVILLE — Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m.  on Wednesday, May 24, 2023  at Vincent Funeral Home - Abbeville honoring the life of Dorothy Toups Peré, 82, who died Wednesday, May 17, 2023 at Calcutta House. She will be laid to rest at St. Paul Cemetery with Reverend Louis J. Richard officiating the services.  
Dotsie, as she was known by family and friends, is remembered to be gracious, assured, and deeply loving. She brought warmth and care to every home, every card game, every dining table, and every baseball field she met in her 82 years. Her memory will continue to bless us all wherever we go.
Dorothy is survived by her son, Wayne C. Peré and husband, Waymond Dale; daughter, Jodi P. Choate and husband, Donnie; three grandchildren, Kyle N. Choate, Tyler P. Choate and Tanner M. Choate; brother, Mickey Toups and wife, Lisa; and sister, Julia Choate.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Wilton Toups and the former Lorena Touchet; husband, Donnie D. Peré; and brothers, Ronald Toups and Dalton Toups.
The family requests that visiting hours be observed at Vincent Funeral Home - Abbeville, 209 S. St. Charles St., on Tuesday, May 23, 2023 from 4 p.m. until   8 p.m. and Wednesday, May 24, 2023 from 8 a.m. until time of services. 
Condolences may be sent to the family at www.vincentfuneralhome.net.
All funeral arrangements are being conducted by Vincent Funeral Home of Abbeville, (337) 893-4661.  

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Jim Brown

Living a full life as we grow older

I just had a birthday. My 83rd. No, no, no, I’m not looking for any more congratulations. Like most of you who are on social media, I’ve been overwhelmed with good wishes. Yes, I do have to realize that I’m not going to live forever. So like anyone else reaching my age, I want to be realistic about setting urgencies.
Do I think about death? Let me quote Shakespeare. In the “The Tempest,” the bard’s last play, his character Prospero is asked in the last line of the last speech, “How often do you think about death?” Prospero answers: “Every third thought.” My response to Prospero and Shakespeare? Bunk. I never think about death.
I do update my will from time to time. And yes, a few years back, I wrote a memo to my family giving suggestions about what kind of funeral I would like to have. Oh and no, it’s not nearly as detailed as my Mother’s. Bless her soul, she planned every detail of her funeral, right down to the kind of cookies she wanted at her funeral reception.
Two things keep me engaged about the end of life. First of all, I have given a number of eulogies in recent years. Too many. I have stood by gravesites and offered tributes and reflections of my father and mother, my brother, two brother-in-laws, and a number of friends as well as rock and roller Jerry Lee Lewis, my first legal client when I moved to Ferriday. When I was a Senator back in the 70s, and for many years thereafter during the time I was in public office, I was asked by a number of ministers both black and white to share thoughts about one of their parishioners. Maybe I knew them well, maybe I didn’t. But I never turned down a request to offer thoughts about someone hopefully on their way to an afterlife.
The second reason I stay engaged with the end of life, and maybe this does come with growing older, I’m trying to carve a path to determine my own thoughts about an afterlife. I was baptized in the Pentecostal church, joined my family during my teenage years in attending the Presbyterian Church, married the first time in the Catholic Church, and a second time in the Episcopal Church. And I’ll bet you do not know that I have even preached a bit. That’s right. Preacher Brown
My family and I have been going to the North Carolina mountains for a number of years. The All Saints Episcopal church is located in the small village of Linville, quite close to our family home. The church is open in the summertime when there are many tourists in the area but closed up the rest of the year. But the doors are always left open, so I continue to attend alone each Sunday for time to read and meditate. After a few Sundays alone, I missed the sermons and the singing. So why not just do it myself? After all, there was no one there to oppose me and I do have a good gift for gab, even on religious issues.
Instead of just sitting there meditating each Sunday morning, Preacher Brown took to the pulpit with no one else in the church, spoke up about Biblical references the related to him (that’s me of course), and then burst out in hymns that have been with me for many years. “Let the Circle be Unbroken,” “I’ll fly away,” “The Old Rugged Cross,” “Just a Closer Walk with Thee,” and of course a hymn that everyone knows, “Amazing Grace.” They were quite lively services if I do say so myself.
What I’m trying to say is that we cannot ignore death, and we all hope for an afterlife. It is certainly OK to plan for the sake of one’s family. But I’m not going to set around like the Shakespeare character, thinking about death. I would hope it is much more productive for all of us to make the most of our current state in life. Play the cards we are delt. Then anticipate a lingering good life. That should pertain to all of us. Even if you are 83, like me.

Peace and Justice
Jim Brown

Jim Brown’s syndicated column appears each week in numerous newspapers throughout the nation and on websites worldwide. You can read all his past columns and see continuing updates at http://www.jimbrownusa.com. You can also listen to his regular podcast at www.datelinelouisiana.com.

Biden under fire from the anti-establishment left and center as R.F.K and Joe Lieberman mount their attacks

Joe Biden is under fire from all sides, with nearly two-thirds of Democrats saying they think the party should nominate someone else, and critics elevating anti-establishment challengers like Robert F. Kennedy Jr as well as mounting attacks with third-party candidates.
Kennedy’s choice to challenge Biden for the Democratic nomination for president has wide implications for the Democratic primaries, as well as for former President Trump’s chances of splitting the Democratic vote in the general. However, the fact that Kennedy, an avid critic of big government covid mandates, corporatism, and Anthony Fauci is rapidly rising in the polls proves anti-establishment sentiment is on the rise on the left as well as the right.
Under the Biden Administration’s draconian leadership, Fauci and Democratic legislators had the American people and the economy as a whole in a stranglehold during the pandemic, and a growing share of the left is critical of harsh mandates and lockdowns and views them as a gross misuse of power.
Mass economic shutdowns caused millions of Americans to suffer job loss and reduced employment, and vaccine mandates all but removed the concept of personal choice and privacy from medicine. Draconian government mandates and highly politicized narratives did little to ingratiate the CDC and globalist organizations like the World Health Organization to a broad swathe of the public.
There is no doubt the optics of the pandemic were terrible from a public policy standpoint, and many Americans no longer trust the establishment in the wake of the way the pandemic was handled, which is one reason R.F.K and other alt-left candidates are amassing enough support to worry the Democratic Party elite.
This comes on top of news that former Sen. Joe Lieberman, the Connecticut Democrat turned Independent who is a self proclaimed centrist, recently announced he’s actively engaged in the process of finding a third-party candidate to challenge and defeat Biden. Lieberman was vocal about supporting Biden in 2020 but believes Biden has governed too far to the left and is seeking a third-party candidate with the hope of unseating Biden. Lieberman stated that “centrists and moderates feel that [Biden has] governed more from the left than they hoped. He hasn’t been able to be the unifier that he promised to be.”
Meanwhile, alternative candidates like Marianne Williamson and R.F.K are gaining traction in recent polls, despite being discredited as long-shots by the mainstream media who continue to prop up Biden.
Comparing the recent numbers to a previous poll conducted by Morning Consult just a month ago, Kennedy’s support has doubled from 10% to 21% per Emerson, while Williamson’s has also increased from 4% to 9%. These findings indicate a substantial surge in support for alternative candidates who are willing to challenge the status quo.
Kennedy’s popularity is particularly strong among women, voters over the age of 65, and non-college educated Democrats. On the other hand, Williamson performs well with women, younger voters, and college-educated Democrats.
A recent Morning Consult poll reveals that 13% of women, compared to 7% of men, would back Kennedy as a primary challenger. Among voters over the age of 65, 17% express support for Kennedy, while younger age groups hover around 9%. Similarly, 12% of non-college Democrats support Kennedy, compared to 10% of college graduates. These findings suggest that Kennedy holds an advantage among the working-class and older voters.
Over the same time period, Biden’s approval rating has declined substantially, particularly among Democratic women. While 78% of men say they’d support Biden in the primaries, only 61% of women share the same sentiment, representing a nearly twenty-percentage point difference.
When Democratic leaners were asked if the party should nominate Biden again or opt for someone else, a notable 58% favored choosing another candidate. These numbers were even higher among younger individuals and Independents who lean Democrat. Among young Democrat leaners, a striking 76% preferred another nominee, while 64% of non-white Democrat leaners expressed the same viewpoint.
There is a widespread consensus among the public that President Biden is unfit for his job, and concerns regarding his health and age extend to the next six years. Democrats, Democratic-leaning individuals, and swing voters, including young people, women, and Independents, are increasingly of the opinion that the Democratic Party should nominate someone other than Biden for the 2024 election.
The surge in support for anti-establishment candidates like R.F.K and challengers from the center as well indicate a fracturing as the left begins to eat its own. Leftists who challenge the status quo and find fault with the Biden Administration’s handling of issues like the pandemic, the Ukraine war, and health policy are finding alternatives like R.F.K more appealing, while the Party Elite remains beholden to their globalist handlers. The party labels are becoming increasingly meaningless, and there are more opportunities for alternative candidates to make their arguments against the status quo, as the American people are hungry for change.

Bill Wilson is a former president of Americans for Limited Government.

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Jim Bradshaw

An unfortunate habit of steamboats

Steamboats revolutionized travel on the waterways of south Louisiana and did wonders for the economies of the places they visited. Unfortunately, one of their biggest drawbacks was that they had a marked tendency to blow up
Lloyd’s Steamboat Directory, and Disasters on the Western Waters, written in 1856, lists more than 200 steamboat disasters in the early 1800s, mostly on the Mississippi. But south Louisiana streams had their share, and 1845 seemed to be a particularly unfortunate year for Bayou Courtableau, the waterway that led to the old port of Washington.
There was some sort of accident to the steamer Panola in January of that year. Eleven passengers put their names on a notice that appeared in the St. Landry Whig: “An accident having happened to the Panola, on her trip … to New Orleans … we the passengers on board said boat, take great pleasure in certifying to the prompt and efficient manner in which the Captain and officers discharged their respective duties. We believe the accident to have been unavoidable; and [testify] to the fidelity of the officers.”
The accident must not have been too serious. A month later the Panola made a trip from New Orleans “in about 50 hours, against a tremendous head wind up the Mississippi, and laying up one night.”
The explosion aboard the Elizabeth in April was much more tragic. The Whig reported on April 10 that the boat was at the junction of the Courtableau and the Atchafalaya at about three o’clock in the morning, when “her boilers collapsed, and completely tore her upper works to atoms.”
First mate Daniel York was killed by the explosion. Three other crewmen were never found, presumably blown overboard. Captain J. H. Gordon and first engineer James Marquise were “very badly scalded and bruised.” The passengers, all of whom were in rooms well away from the explosion, were “uninjured, except a few, who were slightly bruised.”
“The Captain was at his duty at the time of the explosion — though it took place between 2 and 3 o’clock in the morning — and had just given some orders in relation to the safety of the boat. The next thing he knew, he was rising into the air, and then fell among the ruins upon the deck, when the hot chimney fell on him, breaking two ribs and burning him dreadfully,” according to the news account.
The clerk and barkeeper were blown overboard but were able to swim to shore. “Their escape is miraculous,” the Whig claimed. “As soon as Wilson, the clerk, gained the shore, he called for a rope and made the boat fast. … The boat was discovered to be on fire. … The groans of the wounded, and the [explosion] had [unnerved] almost every soul on board. There was a Lady, however, who discovered how things stood; and calling on the men to exert themselves and save their lives, seized a bucket herself, and was the first to commence the work of extinguishing the flames!” according to the Whig.
The boat and cargo were not insured, but all was not completely lost. The captain’s desk was found floating in the bayou the next morning with about $3,000 still safe in one of its drawers.
You can contact Jim Bradshaw at jimbradshaw4321@gmail.com or P.O. Box 1121, Washington LA 70589.

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Bryan Golden

What Do You Say to Your Children?

Children are sponges for knowledge and information. They are born a virtual blank slate. They pay attention to everything you say to them. You are the purveyor of all knowledge. Children can’t distinguish between when you are serious and when you say something impulsively, without thinking. A single comment can stay with a child for the rest of his or her life. If you doubt this, I’m sure you can remember a number of statements made to you when you were younger.
Children believe what you tell them, especially with regard to their self-image. They consider you all knowing. How a child feels about himself will influence him for his entire life. Furthermore, it can affect his relationships with others as well as determining how he treats his own children.
You have a significant responsibility to your children. Your objective is to encourage and make them believe in themselves. Avoid belittling comments which will cause feelings of deficiency.
Unfortunately, many parents are not fully aware of the permanent impact they have on their children. Parents will impulsively say things out of anger or frustration they really don’t mean. But a damaging statement, once uttered, can be burned into a child’s mind forever. Your child can’t discern the motives behind your comments. Even if you apologize, your child still remembers what was said.
Perhaps you are carrying emotional baggage from your childhood. Your parents may have said things to you that had a big negative impact. If this is the case, you need to be all the more careful not to treat your children the same way. Something that had a deleterious impact on you will have the same effect on your children.
Until the cycle is broken, negative behavior will be passed on for generations. Raising a child is an immense responsibility; you influence the type of person they become. It’s imperative to tell your children things to build their self-esteem, enhance their self-image, and enable them to recognize their unlimited potential.
I cringe when I hear an angry parent telling a child they are no good or will never amount to anything. Children will find a way to live up to your expectations. A child who is repeatedly told that she is stupid will rarely do well in school. A child who is told he is inferior to his siblings or other children will be an underachiever.
Children want your attention. A child who is ignored will do anything to be noticed. If being good doesn’t get them the attention they crave, they will resort to more aberrant behavior until they are noticed.
Children don’t understand or comprehend adult world stresses. The concept of money, income, expenses, jobs, and responsibilities are learned only as children get older. Children are very perceptive. They know when you are angry or frustrated. Children will automatically assume that they must have done something wrong to cause your distress.
For this reason, you must never take out your frustrations on your children. Don’t snap at them or put them down. Don’t tell them they don’t understand what you are going through. They will feel there is something wrong with them.
Tell your children you love them. Praise them often. When they do something wrong, explain what they should have done and why. Make your children feel important and part of the family. Teach by example. Think before you speak. Never act out of anger. Insulate your children from the realities of the adult world. They will be dealing with them soon enough.

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