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Bryan Golden

Running on Empty

Just like your car, you can run low on fuel. You can feel depleted mentally, physically, or both. If you don’t fill your car’s gas tank when running on empty, you’ll run out of fuel and your engine will stop.
When you are depleted, you feel you can’t take another step forward. You are experiencing mental and physical exhaustion. Taking just a small break provides an opportunity to get some of your energy back.
If you don’t fill your mental and physical tanks, your performance will stall. Symptoms of running on empty include irritability, tension, stress, lack of concentration, decreased motivation, fatigue, and lack of direction.
You would never consider filling your car’s gas tank with sand. Doing so would completely ruin your engine. Likewise, don’t ever fill your mental or physical tank with sand through substance abuse, or any type of destructive behavior. This strategy quickly worsens any circumstances.
When running on empty, never act out of desperation. There is always a positive strategy for filling your tank. Decisions made when desperate tend to be short sighted and flawed. Desperation taints your perception by distorting your view of reality.
Don’t develop a victim mentality. Blaming other people or circumstances when you find yourself starting to run on empty accomplishes nothing. This type of external focus prevents you from taking the positive actions necessary to fill your tank.
Here are some effective, positive ways to fill your tank when running on empty. Start by being proactive. You are in control and responsible for the action you take. Do what’s required to fill up your tank so you can keep going.
Strive to fill your tank with positive energy, not negative. Look for the positive aspect in all situations. It may be tough to find, but there is usually something positive there. Focusing on the positive keeps you from making circumstances worse. Taking small steps forward is what matters. The size of each step is irrelevant.
Laughing is good for you. A sense of humor helps you recharge while reducing stress and anxiety. There is a humorous aspect to most situations. Look for the humor in every day situations.
Set boundaries. Learn to say no to discretionary activities which drain you. These activities are destructive because they accomplish nothing positive, while detracting from the time you could use pursuing your goals.
Decline participating in these endeavors without using the word “no.” Instead, thank the person asking you to participate before indicating that you must decline due to previous commitments. Each time you do this, you add fuel to your tank.
When dealing with an energy draining problem, focus on finding effective solutions. Dealing with only symptoms robs you of energy without correcting anything. As a result, you become increasingly frustrated. For example, if there is water dripping from your ceiling because of a hole in the roof, placing a bucket to catch the water doesn’t fix the problem.
Eliminate toxic relationships which can quickly empty your tank. These one-way relationships involve people who take from you without contributing anything in return. These people are complainers, whiners, and naysayers, who make you cringe whenever you have to interact with them. Instead, avoid interacting with toxic people. Don’t be rude. It’s OK to make an excuse by using previous commitments or letting them know that you are too busy to connect with them.
Stay connected with how empty your tank is running. Don’t wait until you are stalled out to take corrective action. Keeping fuel in your tank prevents burnout. It’s a lot easier driving your car to a gas station than walking miles with a gas can.

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Raymond George Suire

May 4, 1935 ~ October 29, 2022

ABBEVILLE — Funeral services will be held at 10:00 AM on Wednesday, November 2, 2022 at Vincent Funeral Home - Abbeville honoring the life of Raymond George Suire, 87, who died Saturday, October 29, 2022 at SAGE Specialty Hospital. He will be laid to rest at St. Paul Cemetery with Deacon William "Billy" Vincent officiating the services. Serving as pallbearers will be Windell Nunez, Andrew Page, Ryan Gary, Jason Paul Suire, Randy Gary and Jude Suire.
He is survived by his wife, Rose Mills Suire; two daughters, Joanna S. Williamson and Jody S. Janise and her husband, Murray; two sons, Jude Suire and his wife, Deanna, and Jason Paul Suire; grandchildren, Ashley S. Page and her husband Andrew, Haley Williamson, Jacob Gray and Joshua Gray; great-grandchildren, Kason Page, Hollyn White, Vegas Janise and Skyler Janise; sister, Beverly S. Gary; and brother, Thomas Suire and his wife, Virginia.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Ernest Suire and the former Anna Ebella Gaspard.
The family requests that visiting hours be observed at Vincent Funeral Home - Abbeville, 209 S. St. Charles St., on Tuesday, November 1, 2022 from 2:00 PM until 9:00 PM with a rosary being prayed at 6:30 PM; Wednesday, November 2, 2022 from 8:00 AM until time of services.
Condolences may be sent to the family at www.vincentfuneralhome.net.
All funeral arrangements are being conducted by Vincent Funeral Home of Abbeville, (337) 893-4661.

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Sandra Marie Pigott

Sandra Marie Pigott, 80, of Abbeville, La., passed away on October 25, 2022 in Lafayette, La., after a short illness.
Sandra is survived by her 4 boys; Mark, Barry, Guy and Robie and her 5 grandchildren; and her two sisters, Linda Kleinpeter and Janet Faulk.
Sandra was preceded in death by her husband, Glen Pigott; her parents, Prentice A. Meyers and Esther Marie Bohrer.
Sandra was the owner of Sisters’ House of Gifts for over 35 years. The people of Abbeville remember it as being a very special place for locals to shop and visit.
Sandra was loved by many and will be missed dearly by her family. There will be no service as requested.

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Stanford “Stan” Phillips

Stanford “Stan” Phillips passed away peacefully at his home in Abbeville, La., on October 17, 2022.
A memorial service honoring his life will be held on November 12, 2022, at Tucker’s Crossing Baptist Church at 1 p.m. in Ellisville, Mississippi, Stan’s place of birth. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Stan spent most of his life working in the oil industry, including welding, fabrication, installation, and most recently, pipeline inspection. He worked throughout the U.S. as well as overseas. Stan enjoyed traveling, spending time with his children, and he always loved returning home to Mississippi to enjoy the company of his aunts, uncles, and many of his 52 first cousins.
Stan loved people. Whether it was a holiday with friends or a child’s first birthday party, Stan was happy to be there, and it showed by the smile on his face. Everyone who knew him, will remember his beautiful smile.
He is survived by his wife, Eloise Haden Phillips of Abbeville; a daughter, Brandi Kureska and her husband, Keith, of Midland, Texas; a son, Chris Phillips and his wife, Angie, of Phoenix, Arizona; two granddaughters, Amber Duhon and Kayli Matthews and her husband, Randy, of Fort Worth, Texas; three grandsons, Jacob and Zac Phillips of Phoenix, and Devin Dilley of Fort Worth; two great-granddaughters, Danica and Diana, and two great-grandsons, Dillinger and Rylen; two brothers, Elbert Phillips and his wife, Ola, of Long Beach, Mississippi, and Michael Phillips and his wife, Wanda, of Gulfport, Mississipp; as well as a host of nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Stan was preceded in death by his first wife, Margaret Ann Shows Phillips; and his parents, Ozelle and Eva Brooks Phillips.
The family would like to thank Traditions Health and especially, Shalaya Greene and Laketha O’Brien for their compassionate care of Stan in his final days.

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Lois Allen Sudduth

Lois Allen Sudduth passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 27, 2022. She was the beloved wife of 59 years of Dr. Perry George Sudduth (deceased) and the loving mother of Cindy Sudduth Campisi (Lloyd), Jan Sudduth Judice (Bud), Scott Sudduth (Theresa), and Patti Sudduth Domengeaux (Jimmy). She was a wonderful Memom to her eight grandchildren: Leslie Campisi, Lauren Campisi Bone, Lia Campisi Reaves, Michele Domengeaux Kaufman, Meredith Domengeaux Rybacki, James Domengeaux, Jr., Emily Sudduth Daigle, and Hunter Sudduth; and to her ten great-grandchildren: George Bone, Harrison Reaves, Marguerite “Millie” Reaves, Lewis Reaves, Juliette Kaufman, Charlotte Kaufman, Celia Rybacki, Corinne Rybacki, Bentley Daigle, and Joseph Domengeaux. Lois is also survived by her nephew, Michael Skrmetta, and extended family members. She was predeceased by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Richard Clyde Allen (Inez Marguerite Carlos), and her sister, Richalyn Allen Skrmetta.
Originally from Biloxi, Mississippi, Lois graduated from Biloxi High School and Southwestern Louisiana Institute (SLI) where she was a member of Alpha Sigma Alpha (ASA) sorority. Following her graduation from SLI, she was a lower elementary teacher in Biloxi and New Orleans.
She moved to Abbeville with her family in 1959 where she made life-long friends, particularly with her supper club, bridge club, and Fortnighly Club members. She enjoyed fishing, having won the Grand Isle Tarpon Rodeo in 1964, cooking, gardening, music, and dancing. She was unflappable, always poised, elegant, and made the best hand-cut shoestring French fries. Her family will remember fondly the decades of family holidays she hosted, the adventures she led, and the card games she played.
The family would like to extend its sincerest gratitude to her sitters: Paula, Tammy, Hilda, Diana, Kristina, and Regina. They would also like to thank the staff of the Vermilion at Eastridge Assisted Living Community, Hospice of Acadiana, and all of the medical professionals who provided compassionate care to her over the years.
Private Funeral Services were held and conducted by Reverend Louis Richard, Pastor of St. Mary Magdalen Catholic Church. Pallbearers were James Domengeaux, Jr., Hunter Sudduth, Jason Bone, Dr. Joshua Reaves, William Kaufman, Thomas Rybacki, and Colton Daigle.
In lieu of flowers, the Sudduth Family has requested that donations be made to Hospice of Acadiana, 2600 Johnston St., Suite 200, Lafayette, LA 70503.
Funeral arrangements were handled by Vincent Funeral Home, 209 S. St. Charles St., Abbeville, LA 70510.

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Darlene Duhon Lege

ABBEVILLE – A Private Memorial will be held at a later date at St. Mary Magdalen Cemetery for Mrs. Darlene Duhon Lege, 76, who passed away at 11:45 PM on Thursday, October 27, 2022 at her residence.
A native and lifelong resident of Abbeville, Mrs. Darlene loved fishing and was an avid Saints fan. She was known for her love for her family.
She is survived by two sons, Lance Lege and his wife Miranda and Shawn Lege and his wife Jan; her mother, Jaunita LeBlanc; two brothers, Rusty LeBlanc and Jimmy Duhon; a sister, Maxine Frederick; and three grandchildren, Logan Lege, Olivia Lege and Jared Bryce Scalisi.
She is preceded in death by her husband, Johnny Lege; her father, E.J. LeBlanc; and her biological father, Jesse Duhon.
The family would like to offer a special thanks to Amy, Kelli, Vickie, Angela, Mia, Mackie, Miranda and all of those that gave Mrs. Darlene special care.
You may sign the guest register book and express condolences online at www.davidfuneralhome.org
David Funeral Home, 2600 Charity Street, (337) 893-3777 will be handling the arrangements.

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Jeanne Domingue holds a new Build-A-Bear that her son, Garry, gave her as a birthday present. The Bear is dressed in overalls like her husband Robert loved to wear. Also, when the Bear speaks, she hears the voice of her late husband speaking.

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Jeanne Domingue’s five children arrived from different parts of the country to celebrate her 100th birthday. Her children are (left to right), Ron Domingue, Rita Domingue DeBries, Michael Domingue, Garry Domingue and Clare Domingue.

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Jeanne and Robert Domingue on their wedding day, nearly 80 years ago.

100-years-old: Domingue takes life ‘one day at a time’

What do you do when you turn 100? You celebrate with your children, of course. And that is what Jeanne Hebert Domingue did on her milestone birthday.
Domingue celebrated with her five children at Woodbriar Assisted Living in Maurice.
She is not surprised to reach the 100-year mark because she has had relatives live to 102 and 103 years old.
“I am 100 years old today,” said Domingue. “All my kids are with me, so I am very happy.”
Her children traveled from Florida, Texas, Colorado, and Arizona to share in this special occasion.
Her children are Rita DeBries, Michael, Garry, Ron and Clare Domingue.
They ate with her at Woodbriar Assisted Living, where she is the oldest resident.
She was born in Parks, Louisiana, and graduated from SLI (now the University of Louisiana). While married and living in Lafayette, she worked different jobs and enjoyed volunteering at her church and other hospitals. In addition, she was active in the Catholic Daughters.
She was married Robert Domingue until he died in 1995. He was 79. After that, she lived alone and still drove until she was 91. She has lived in different assisted living facilities for the last few years.
Domingue has lived throughout modern history from the Great Depression, World War II, the segregation era, the first moon landing, and much more.
Domingue advised on what it takes to live to be 100.
“Live one day at a time,” she said. “My faith has seen me through. I have been blessed in many ways. I have friends and have traveled. I have accomplished everything in life I wanted. I am happy.”
Domingue has survived COVID in the last two years. She was active until she fractured her kneecap and is in a wheelchair today.
She added, “I take things as they come. My life has been fulfilled. So I will accept whatever comes my way. That has been the hardest thing - acceptance.”

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Sister Teresa Margaret Toups, O. Carm.

Sister Teresa Margaret Toups, O. Carm. returned to God October 25, 2022. She was 83 years old and in the 64th year of her religious profession.
Sister Teresa Margaret, born Geraldine Marie Toups in Maurice, LA on February 16, 1939, is the youngest of six children of the late Ernest Toups, Sr., of Vermillion Parish, LA and Marie Simonia Toups of Youngsville, LA. She entered Carmel in 1955 and professed first vows in 1958. Sister attended Central Grammar Elementary and Mount Carmel in Lafayette, LA, and graduated from Mount Carmel Academy, New Orleans, LA. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Elementary Education from St. Mary’s Dominican College, New Orleans. Sister did post-graduate work at Notre Dame University, the University of Dayton, and Loyola University. She celebrated her 60th Jubilee in 2018.
Sister devoted 50 years to Catholic education teaching at St. Dominic and St. Louis King of France, New Orleans, Our Lady of Prompt Succor, Westwego, LA, St. Joseph, Rayne Catholic Elementary, Rayne, LA, and Cathedral-Carmel Elementary, Lafayette, LA. She received the Diocesan Outstanding Teacher of the Year 1999-2000 when serving at Cathedral-Carmel. Sister Teresa Margaret served as a volunteer at Cathedral-Carmel Elementary in the art department until her retirement in 2018.
Sister was preceded in death by her parents, one sister, LouElla Toups and four brothers, Ernest, Jr., Ira Charles, Emick Paul, and Alvin James Toups, Sr., She is survived by nieces, nephews, and cousins.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on November 3, 2022 at the Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist, 515 Cathedral Street, Lafayette, LA 70501. Visitation will be from 8 a.m. - 10 a.m. with Mass at 10 a.m. Interment will follow at St. Mary Magdalen Cemetery, 410 Old Kaplan Hwy., Abbeville, LA 70510. Martin and Castille Funeral Home, Lafayette, LA have been entrusted with Sister’s arrangements.
View the obituary and guestbook online at www.mourning.com
Martin & Castille Funeral Home - DOWNTOWN, 330 St. Landry Street Lafayette, LA. 70506 337-234-2311.

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Clara Elizabeth Johnson Landry

ABBEVILLE – Funeral service for Clara Elizabeth Johnson Landry is scheduled for Saturday, October 29, 2022 at 11:00 A.M. at St. Mary Congregational Church – 213 S. Louisiana Street-- with burial in St. Paul Cemetery. Pastor Kevin Williams will officiate the service.
Visitation will be from 9:00 A.M. until time of service.
Clara Elizabeth Johnson Landry was born September 29, 1945 to the union of Zelma Carmona and Gus Johnson of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Clara accepted Christ at an early age under the leadership of Rev. Livous. She was baptized at New Gideon Baptist Church in Valley Park, Baton Rouge, LA. Clara was faithful in her Christian walk with Christ. She had an unconditional love for children, and took her role as a loving daughter, sister, wife, mother, aunt, nanny, and best friend very seriously. She helped many family members with their children. It was nothing but love when she opened her doors to take in other people’s children. Clara was a mama to many children. She helped to raise many of our nieces, nephews, and cousins. If you needed a place to sleep or stay, her door was always open. She gladly welcomed you in. She loved to sing and cook. In fact, she specialized in frying chicken.
Clara worked as a cook for Food Etc. for over 15 years. She was later employed by the Vermilion Parish School Board as a cafeteria cook where she served until retiring.
Clara also loved to fish. It was nothing for her to take you to her favorite fishing spot and spend the entire day laughing and talking. She never had the heart to say “no” to anyone. If you needed her to take you anywhere, she became your taxi driver. She would baby sit any child, your dog, and yes even your cat, you just had to ask.
Clara was called from labor to reward on Saturday, October 22, 2022. She is preceded in death by her mother Zelma Carmona, father, Gus Johnson of Baton Rouge, LA; one brother, Max Johnson; three sisters-in-law, Dianna Ray Landry, Marilyn Baptist, and Lillian Grace Landry of Abbeville, LA; and a special road dog friend as she would say, Gwendolyn Davis of Abbeville, LA.
Clara leaves to cherish her sweet memories, her loving husband John Allen Landry of 52 years of marriage; one daughter, Shelly Fontenot (Randy) of Oberlin, LA; three brothers-in-law, Floyd James Landry, Sr., Herbert Rickey Landry and Richard Landry all of Abbeville, LA; two sisters-in-law, Pauline Scott Landry of Lafayette and Dianne Mouton Landry of Abbeville, LA; and a host of nieces, nephews, relatives and friends who will miss her dearly.
Kinchen Funeral Home, Inc. – 218 N. St. Valerie Street (337) 898-9595 -- is in charge of final arrangements. Additionally, condolences to the family may be expressed on our website at: www.kinchenfuneralhome.com.

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Jaydeon Turner (9) and Jaysen Shelvin (8) of Abbeville bring down St. Martinville receiver Harvey Broussard on Thursday night. SMSH won the District 5-3A game 42-19.

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Abbeville defenders Nalen St. Julien (6) and Derrian Washington (7) stop St. Martinville’s Cullen Charles on Thursday night.

Abbeville can’t dig way out of big hole, falls to SMSH

The St. Martinville Tigers took advantage of a couple of short field situations to build a big halftime lead and held off a second-half comeback try by the Abbeville Wildcats to remain unbeaten in District 5-3A action Thursday night at Wildcat Stadium in Abbeville.
The Tigers (5-4 overall, 3-0 district) scored on all four of their first-half possessions to lead 28-7 at the break, then added TDs on their first two second-half possessions to go up 42-7 before Abbeville buckled down and outscored the visiting team 12-0 the rest of the way.
The Wildcats saw another scoring opportunity slip away with a fumble inside the SMSH 15-yard line, and turned the ball over on downs at the St. Martinville 36 and 38 yard lines in the fourth quarter to snuff three potential scoring drives that could’ve pulled Abbeville to within a couple of points had they all been converted into TDs.
“(I’m) one hundred percent proud of our effort right there,” AHS coach Roderick Moy said. “It would’ve been very easy — many high school teams would’ve folded down 28-7, but we showed a lot of grit. We showed the football team I truly believed we are in my heart, and I’m very proud of that. That’s a good football team over there (St. Martinville), I don’t give a damn what their record is. That’s a great football team over there, and we matched them. Unfortunately, they just punched us in the mouth in the first quarter, and we were never able to recover.
SMSH took advantage of a turnover on downs at the Abbeville 35 to get its first touchdown as a fourth-and-one attempt by AHS came up short. St. Martinville tailback Steven Blanco scored the first of his four rushing TDs from seven yards away and the PAT by Alexis Maza made it 7-0.
Quarterback Kaden Zenon added a one-yard TD run and receiver Cullen Charles scored on a three-yard run to make it 21-0. A double pass — from Zenon to Charles, and then from Charles to a wide-open Harvey Broussard, made it 28-0 with 1:01 left in the half. Abbeville protested the TD on the double pass as the first throw was a forward pass, and not a lateral, but the play stood after the officials discussed the play.
Abbeville got on the scoreboard with a three-play scoring drive on the ensuing possession. Quarterback Tahj Judge hit a wide-open Ronale Walker for a 54-yad gain to the SMSH 11, and two snaps later, Jaysen Shelvin made a beautiful one-handed grab in the end zone to pull Abbeville to within 28-7 following the PAT by Edwin Ramirez.
Shelvin led the Wildcats with 66 yards on 11 rushes and had two catches for 16 yards and a TD. Walker led Abbeville with 75 yards on two receptions.
But Blanco, who finished the night with 223 yards on 22 carries, added TD runs of 5 and 81 yards in the second half to push the lead to 42-7. Broussard had four catches for 112 yards on the night for the Tigers.
Abbeville kept fighting after falling behind by 35 points, with Braylon Moore scooping up a rolling kickoff and returning it 90 yards for a touchdown. The PAT was blocked but Abbeville had trimmed its deficit to 42-13.
The Wildcats then forced a three-and-out to set up a six-play, 68-yard scoring drive to pull to within 42-19. Tra’Sean Greene scored on a one-yard carry after Shelvin converted a fourth-and-five play with an 11-yard run to the 1. Greene finished with 40 yards on 11 runs.
The Abbeville defense stifled SMSH from there but couldn’t score on their final three possessions.
“I think if you catch the last three quarters it might be an even ballgame, but that’s what good teams do, they were able to put together 48 minutes, and we only played a good three quarters, and that was the difference in the game,” Moy said.
Both teams struggled with penalties. Abbeville was penalized nine times for 83 yards, while St. Martinville drew a dozen flags for 119 yards in penalties.
AHS plays at Kaplan on Friday to close out the regular season.
“We’ve got to match their effort,” Moy said. “We know they’re going to be hungry. Their season’s on the line. We need to match their effort and play a clean game. You saw it tonight. I bet we had 20 penalties. We’ve got to clean that up because we can’t put that all on officials. We did some things wrong, and we’ve got to be honest with ourselves. Clean up the penalties, and we’ve got to get healthy. We lost some key guys tonight. That will be a big deal.”

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